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Respect, Respect

“Now these ladies is lookin pretty from city to city
I refined a few I met, around the country
The nitty gritty, it’s all reality, no question
Actual fact like tight jeans cause yeast infections
And sisters with good minds, get no respect when
Their ass is all hangin out, playin the bar section
of the club shake what your mama gave ya, back to the lab
I drop the truth, cause rhyming is more than just my craft
Or a way to get ass, or fast cash, or blasted

Black women, make sure you’re respected
When niggaz is kickin that old off the wall shit, let em know
from jump: “Dead it”, you’re not ignorant
Knowledge wisdom understanding is the key to wealth
Put some clothes on that ass if you respect yourself

With those hooker type wears hon you’re, playin yaself
With those skin tight jeans baby you’re, playin yaself
Everything all exposed you’re, playin yaself
You’re, playin yaself, you’re, playin yaself

Everything all exposed you’re, playin yaself
With those skin tight jeans baby you’re, playin yaself
With those hooker type wears hon you’re, playin yaself
You’re, playin yaself, you’re, playin yaself”

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So Mouf Peace recently wrote a blog piece about being Miss. Understood. And it got me thinking, how all of the things she said were very true. Of coarse of all people I should not be one giving relationship advice or anything of the sort, I’m going to just put her post in here, hope she doesn’t mind!

I may ask for alone time, but that doesn’t mean I don’t want u in my life.
I may want to have girl days, but u’d be the only man I spend my nights with.
I may deny ur help sometimes, but I am still more than grateful that u offered.
I may not be afraid to speak my mind, but I won’t be afraid to tell you I love you either.
And I may not need u in my life, but what matters is I want u to be.”

This was in regards to women being independent, and not needing anyone to support her. But in reality, how Abigail said everything, was the pure truth for me personally. Why would I choose not to have someone to be there for me, someone I can lean on and rely on? Yes I am putting myself in the most vulnerable state of soul and mind, but in the end, if I wasn’t ready for that, why would I even do it in the first place?All of this may sound like pure selfishness, wanting the man to do everything for me, or sound like something I want for pure convenience, but that is far from the truth.

A woman should always do what she wants done to her for her man. When a man puts himself in to a relationship, he should be willing to open himself up to his girl, and let her be there for him. So that is what he is allowing us to do, letting us in. So we should take advantage of that. Make him feel special, needed, wanted, and that it has to be him, and we don’t want it to be someone else.

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Fill in the Blank Friday (posted on Monday :P)

February 23, 2010 Leave a comment

1. If I could  medal in an olympic event it would be for volleyball, my favorite sport to watch and play of coarse!

2.  If I was stranded on a deserted island I’d take Sora probably. But then again, I don’t know if I want to take a pet because, how about it leaves me somehow and I never get it back. Then i would be all alone. I would probably rather have something that was never alive in the first place… hmm….

3. Holes  (as mentioned in my first post ever)  are my most irrational fear.

4.  I’d rather be in the blazing hot next to the beach everyday,  than ever live in a place that snows mostly everyday (well you know what i mean).

5.  I am currently irritated that I have to work on the one day i asked for off.

6.  I should really be reading and doing some homework.

7.  One of my favorite things in all the world is singing disney songs at the top of my lungs!

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February 16, 2010 Leave a comment

I have a very soft image, and for the most part I can fit this image. I am a pretty good person, obedient, hard workings, and have a innocent presence. Those I have been intimate with know that I may not be a good girl all the time, but that is something that I share with those I am comfortable with, and not with everyone. But once in awhile I feel like I like to be like everyone  else, say things I usually don’t say, and do things I usually don’t do. But I feel like right away I get judgment eyes, and that I shouldn’t be doing those things. According to a friend “Dragging my innocent name in the mud”, just because I may have discussed a somewhat sexual conversation, but not even to a serious extent. It gets tiring sometimes, being the person everyone thinks I should be. I am who I am , and if its not who you think I am, then I’m sorry. But know that I can have a good time, that I like to have fun too.

Because of this, I feel like I can be a good friend to others, that I can listen to people’s conversations with an open mind. So that’s my rant 🙂

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February 10, 2010 1 comment

Please 🙂

Saw it on my home from volleyball, and thought it was a considerate and kinda cute.

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